We understand your feelings in case of failure. It is important to remember and
understand the success rates which have been told to you at the beginning of the
cycle. Please do not blame failure on anything that you feel you did wrong (such
as eating out, traveling long distances, bumps or jerks with a autorickshaw, cold,
cough, fever, or any other such events). As counselled earlier you have to remember
that you have to often do multiple cycles before attaining success. You can request
a meeting with the doctor, preferably more than a week after the negative test (to
allow for emotional recovery) and then discuss things out. Doctor will review the
file and the cycle events and counsel you about the possible reasons (for example
– egg or sperm quality, some problem in the womb which could not hold on to the
embryos although they were of best quality and other such reasons.